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Have you taken a vow of silence?

by ChakrasEnergy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

There is a kind of throat pain that doesn’t belong to cold season or allergy season. It belongs to your history.

I’m talking about the throat problem that appears the night before a hard conversation.

The tight, scratchy feeling that shows up when you finally decide you’ll tell the truth to a parent, a partner, a boss.

The sudden loss of voice before a talk, a class, a livestream. The doctor says, “Looks a little irritated, nothing serious,” and sends you home. Physically you look fine. Energetically, your throat is carrying a file cabinet.

From an energy perspective, the throat is a gate. It connects heart and mind. It decides what makes it from your inner world into the outer one.

If the gate has been wired for silence, you can meditate, drink tea, take herbs, and still feel like there’s a hand around your neck every time you try to speak honestly.

Many students come to me with this pattern. They complain of constant tightness, chronic clearing, recurring sore throats with no clear medical cause. When we trace it back, we almost always find vows.

Vows of silence. Vows of protection. Vows that made sense once, in a very different room, under very different conditions.

When you took a vow of silence

Some of these vows come from other lifetimes. You may have been the monk who heard confessions and promised never to repeat what people told you. You may have been the mystic punished for speaking visions that challenged authority. You may have been the village healer who saw how quickly a loose tongue could lead to a mob.

Others are formed much closer to home.

A child hears, “We don’t talk about that outside this house,” and takes it as law. A teenager tells the truth once and gets ridiculed or punished. Someone finally speaks about abuse or addiction and watches the family explode, then decides, “I won’t open my mouth like that again.”

In those moments, the soul writes simple sentences.

“I will keep quiet.”
“I won’t say what I see.”
“I’ll protect them by swallowing this.”
“I’ll never let my words cause trouble again.”

These sound like passing thoughts. The field treats them as contracts.

Energetically, those promises sit around the throat like rings, collars, bands, sometimes like a veil across the mouth. They are old, and they are very literal.

How A Vow Of Silence Feels Today

You don’t have to remember the exact moment you made the vow to feel its grip.

It tends to show up in patterns like these:

You feel clear and articulate in your own head. As soon as you try to speak, the words tangle or disappear. You walk away from interactions thinking, “That is not what I meant to say at all.” The real words remain parked in your chest.

You can talk easily about safe topics, small talk, logistics, spiritual ideas that don’t cost anything. The moment the subject turns personal, real, or challenging, your throat tightens. You might cough, change the subject, make a joke, or suddenly feel “too tired” to keep going.

You lose your voice at important thresholds. You’re about to teach your first class, record a video, lead a group, have a boundary conversation. Out of nowhere, your voice goes hoarse. Sometimes this happens again and again, at the same kinds of moments, as if your body is enforcing an old gag order.

You censor yourself mid-sentence. You feel a strong impulse to say something truthful and kind, or truthful and firm. A half-second before you do, a wave of anxiety hits. The body clamps down. You edit yourself into something softer, smaller, or more palatable. Later, you feel both relieved and strangely disappointed.

From an energy point of view, none of this is random. Your throat is trying to obey a long-standing order: stay quiet, stay safe, keep the peace, protect the system.

The Emotional Side Of A Vow of Silence

A blocked throat doesn’t only affect sound. It affects emotion.

People with strong silence vows often feel misunderstood, even in relationships that look good on the outside. They might be surrounded by others, yet carry a sense that no one really knows them. They keep entire worlds inside.

There can be a low-grade frustration that builds over years.

You listen deeply to other people. You hold space. You give wise feedback. When it’s your turn to share, you suddenly feel blank, flooded, or strangely numb.

Over time, some people stop trying. They stop raising their hand in groups. They stop telling the truth in relationships. They stop bringing new ideas into teams or communities. The soul doesn’t stop seeing and feeling. It simply stops expecting expression to be safe.

The body pays for that. The throat becomes a storage unit for unsaid things.

Your Throat Is Loyal, Not Broken

I want you to hear this very clearly. Your throat is not failing you. It is being loyal to something you once believed was required.

It is loyal to the scared teenager who tried telling the truth once and got burned. It is loyal to the novice who was punished by an abbot or a priest for asking the wrong question. It is loyal to the woman who watched what happened when someone spoke out in the village, and decided, “Never again, not with my mouth.”

That loyalty is touching, and it has become costly.

As your mission grows, you cannot keep your voice in a locked box and expect your body to feel good. The nervous system knows you’re holding back. The heart knows. The soul knows. The gap between what you feel and what you allow yourself to say becomes a drain.

A Simple First Step To Meeting The Vow

We can’t do a full session inside a blog post, yet you can start a gentle conversation with your own throat.

Find a quiet moment where you won’t be interrupted for a few minutes. Sit comfortably, feet on the floor if possible. Place one hand over the front of your throat, the other over your heart. Breathe slowly in through your nose and out through your mouth until your body settles a little.

Then, without forcing any answers, think of one situation where you held back your true words recently. Just one. Notice how your throat feels as you replay that in your mind. Tight, hot, aching, numb, completely fine. Whatever it is, register it.

Now, silently inside, ask, “What are you protecting me from by holding my voice like this.” Don’t push. Wait. Let the first impression arise, even if it feels faint or illogical. It might be a flash of a childhood scene. It might be the face of a parent. It might be a sense of “being in trouble,” “being alone,” “being shamed,” “being hurt,” or something else entirely.

You’re not trying to fix it in that moment. You’re introducing yourself to the gatekeeper. The part of you that thinks silence equals safety.

If emotion arises, let the body have a few tears or a deep sigh. If nothing comes, that’s fine too. The very act of putting a hand on your throat and asking shifts something. It tells your system that this area is allowed to have a story, not just symptoms.

Why This Belongs In Your Energy Training

Working with vows of silence is delicate. You’re dealing with real history, real fear, and real spiritual wiring. This is exactly why I teach full-body energy tools and throat work inside LifeForce Energy Healing® Level I.

In Level I, students learn to:

  • Clear and balance the throat center in the context of the whole field, so it isn’t isolated and raw
  • Recognize the difference between everyday shyness and actual vow energy
  • Work ethically with their own history so they’re not ripping open ancient agreements without support

You can do a lot on your own with awareness. That’s the beginning. To really shift a long-standing vow, especially if it spans lifetimes or is tied to trauma, you need structure, method, and a safe container.

Your voice is part of your healing gift. It carries your frequency. It carries medicine that doesn’t land the same way through written words alone. The world you live in now is ready for more honest, grounded spiritual voices. Your throat may still think it’s sitting in a very different century.

If you feel those throat issues that never quite make sense, the recurring tightness when you decide to speak, the pattern of losing your voice whenever you get close to your next level, pay attention. Your body is telling you there is an old promise ready to be revisited.

You don’t have to tear it down in one day. You do have to stop pretending it isn’t there.

If you feel called to work this through with me, LifeForce Energy Healing® Level I is where we start. We give your field language, tools, and support, so that your voice can belong to the mission you have now, instead of to the fears of another time.

Click here to learn more >>

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When Your Soul Is Already Tired in January: The Hidden Energetic Hangover of a New Year

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

January is supposed to feel crisp and hopeful. New calendar. New planner. Fresh promises.

Yet a lot of sensitive people wake up in the second or third week of January feeling wrung out. Spiritually flat. Nervous system buzzing and heavy at the same time. The mind keeps saying, “It’s a new year,” while the body quietly whispers, “I’m already exhausted.”

This is the energetic hangover of a new year. And it is very real.

What Is a “New Year Energetic Hangover”?

Most people think of a hangover as a physical reaction after too much alcohol. Your soul can go through its own version after too much stimulation, pressure, and emotional buildup.

December squeezes a lot into a short span of time.

  • Family dynamics
  • Travel, money stress, expectations
  • Collective grief that surfaces around the holidays

Even if the holidays were peaceful on the outside, your field felt all of it. The energy of other people in stores, airports, group chats, social media, old memories tied to this season.

Then January arrives with a sharp pivot.

Suddenly everything points to productivity. Resolutions. “This is the year I finally…”

The soul has not finished digesting the last cycle. Yet the nervous system is already being pushed toward the next sprint. That mismatch creates fatigue that feels strangely deep.

Spiritual, Emotional, And Nervous System Fatigue In January

Think of your energy body as a set of layers. They overlap like the atmosphere. When one layer is overtaxed, the others start compensating.

In January, three strains tend to pile up:

  1. Spiritual fatigue
    Your inner life spent an entire season holding more light and more shadow at the same time. Grief and gratitude. Loneliness and connection. Memories and hopes. That much contrast requires energy to metabolize.

     

  2. Emotional fatigue
    Old wounds are louder in December. Even if you “handled” the visible surface, the emotional body was working hard underneath. Managing disappointment. Managing unspoken resentment. Managing other people’s feelings.

     

  3. Nervous system fatigue
    Sugar, irregular sleep, travel, noise, screens, constant “updates” from the outside world. Your nerves feel like overused wires. The system can still carry current. It just overheats faster.

     

By the time the new year hype kicks in, you are often starting from a deficit. Then the mind adds pressure:

“You should be inspired.”
“You should have a plan by now.”
“You should feel ready.”

That inner push pulls even harder on an already tired system.

Signs Your Soul Is Already Tired In January

Everyone expresses this differently, yet certain patterns show up again and again. You might notice:

  • A strange mix of apathy and anxiety
  • Sensitivity to noise, news, or other people’s moods
  • A heavy feeling when you think about the whole year at once
  • Difficulty praying, meditating, or doing any spiritual practice you usually love
  • A sense that time is moving too quickly and too slowly at the same time

None of this means you are failing spiritually. It usually means your system is trying to downshift. The soul is saying, “Integrate what just happened before you decide who you will be for the next twelve months.”

Why “Fresh Start” Pressure Makes It Worse

The beginning of the year carries its own kind of glamour spell.

New planners, new programs, new promises. Marketing everywhere tells you that this is the moment to reinvent everything.

For a sensitive person, this can accidentally override inner timing. Instead of asking, “Where am I in my actual cycle?” the mind grabs a collective story:

  • “Everyone else is starting strong.”
  • “I need to keep up.”

That story forces premature growth. It is like asking a winter tree to blossom because the calendar flipped. The tree does not care about the calendar. The tree cares about soil temperature and light.

Your soul works the same way. It moves by energy, not by date.

When you override your real rhythm with outer pressure, the result is often:

  • Fragmentation
  • Inner resistance
  • More self-criticism

The fatigue deepens, and the year feels “off” before it really begins.

How To Recover Your Field From A January Energetic Hangover

You cannot bully your way out of spiritual fatigue. You can, however, reset the field in practical, grounded ways. Here are several that consistently help students in Deborah’s community.

1. Shrink The Time Horizon

  • Looking at “all of 2026” is overwhelming when your system is tired.
  • Bring your attention in close. Work with one week. If that still feels heavy, work with one day. Ask a simple question in the morning:
  • “What is the most honest thing I can do with my energy today?”
  • Maybe it is one real conversation. Maybe it is finishing one task that has been hanging over you. Maybe it is finally resting without guilt.
  • Shorter horizons create less static in the field. Your energy can gather instead of scattering into imaginary futures.

2. Close Emotional Tabs

  • Think of your heart like a browser with too many tabs open. Each unresolved interaction, each lingering resentment, each unanswered message runs quietly in the background.
  • Pick two or four “tabs” that drain you the most.
  • Write them down.
  • For each one, choose a next step that is actually doable:
    • Send a short, honest email
    • Schedule a conversation
    • Acknowledge to yourself that a boundary is needed
    • Decide that this one will be handled later, and consciously place it in a journal so your body knows you did not forget
  • The point is not to solve everything.
  • The point is to signal your system: “I see the leak. I am already addressing it.” That recognition alone calms the field.

3. Give Your Nervous System A Simple Pattern

  • The nervous system loves rhythm.
    When life has been irregular, erratic patterns feel like constant threat.
  • Choose one simple pattern you can keep for seven days.
    Keep it kind. Keep it realistic. For example:
    • Drink warm water before coffee each morning
    • Step outside and put your feet on the ground for two minutes
    • Turn off screens thirty minutes before sleep
    • Place one hand on your heart and breathe slowly for ten breaths before getting out of bed
  • Repetition here is spiritual, not trivial. Routine tells the body, “You are safe enough for rhythm.” Once the body trusts rhythm again, deeper spiritual work becomes possible.

4. Name The Grief That Didn’t Fit Into December

  • Some grief refuses to move on schedule.
    Loss around the holidays can feel especially sharp, yet conversation about it often gets pushed aside to keep things “festive.”
  • If you felt any of this, January becomes the spillover month.
  • Set aside quiet time and name what did not get space in December.
  • You might write it. You might speak it out loud. You might light a candle and sit with a photograph or an object.
  • The act of naming grief is energetic housekeeping.
  • You are not indulging in sadness. You are giving the soul permission to finish one chapter so it does not have to drag its weight through the whole year.

5. Ask Your Soul For One Intention, Not A Dozen

  • Instead of long lists of resolutions, ask for a single soul intention for the first quarter of the year.
  • An intention might sound like:
    • “Stability in my body.”
    • “Honesty in relationships.”
    • “Courage to end what is finished.”
    • “Openness to guidance.”
  • Let that one intention quietly guide your choices.
  • If a plan supports it, continue. If a plan fights it, reconsider.
  • This focuses your energy instead of scattering it across too many projects. Focus is deeply healing for a tired field.

Let January Be A Healing Month, Not A Test

You do not have to “win” January.

You can let it become a healing bridge between the old cycle and the new one.

When your soul is already tired in January, the invitation is clear.

Slow the inner pace. Shorten the horizon. Tend the nervous system. Close what can be closed. Let one true intention rise through the noise.

From that place, February will feel very different. The year will unfold from a steadier foundation instead of frantic momentum.

When You Need Support Holding The Field

Sometimes the energetic hangover is bigger than what you can clear alone. Old trauma, deep grief, or strong collective sensitivity can make this season feel intense.

If you feel called to deeper support, you can work with LifeForce Energy Healing® certified practitioners in private sessions. These practitioners are trained in Deborah’s method and know how to:

  • Hold a clean energetic container while you release what December stirred up
  • Help you identify where your field is leaking or overloaded
  • Support you in resetting your system so you can meet 2026 with more steadiness

You don’t have to carry the new year tired, scrambled, and alone.

If your whole being relaxes at the thought of someone holding space for you in this reset, you can explore private sessions with a certified practitioner here >>

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Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Last: Is Your List Reflecting Someone Else’s Agenda?

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

As the calendar turns to 2025, millions will write down their New Year’s resolutions with high hopes of transformation.

Lose weight. Save more money. Eat healthier. Sound familiar?

But let’s take a closer look. Are these your goals? Or do they echo societal expectations, social media trends, or family pressures? The truth is, resolutions often fail not because we lack discipline, but because they don’t resonate with who we truly are.

The Problem With Borrowed Goals

Imagine you’re an artist who loves vibrant colors, but someone hands you a paint-by-numbers kit in muted shades. You try to make it work, but it feels forced, uninspired. That’s what happens when your resolutions come from external influences rather than your authentic self.

Borrowed goals lack soul. They don’t excite you or align with your deepest desires, which makes them easy to abandon when the initial rush of motivation fades.

The Key to Resolutions That Stick: Authentic Alignment

The most effective resolutions come from within. They reflect your values, passions, and purpose. Before committing to a list for 2025, ask yourself:

  • What do I truly want? Strip away societal noise and listen to your inner voice.
  • What will bring me peace, joy, and fulfillment? Goals that nurture your spirit are more likely to succeed.
  • What do I need to release? Sometimes, growth is about letting go—of habits, relationships, or beliefs that no longer serve you.

By aligning your intentions with your authentic self, you create goals that are not just achievable, but deeply meaningful.

A Transformational Opportunity: Work With Angels of Energy Healing

If you’re ready to set resolutions that align with your soul’s purpose, there’s no better way to start than by embracing the healing power of angels.

The Angels of Energy Healing course is your gateway to profound transformation. This program teaches you how to connect with angelic forces to release old wounds, gain clarity, and set intentions that resonate with your highest self.

Whether you’re seeking guidance for your next steps, healing from past traumas, or simply a deeper connection with your spiritual path, this course will provide the tools you need to thrive in 2025.

Click here to explore the Angels of Energy Healing course and begin your transformational journey >>

Step Into 2025 With Purpose

This New Year’s Eve, take a moment to reflect. Not on what you “should” do, but on what your spirit truly needs.

When your goals come from a place of authenticity, they become a joy to pursue rather than a chore to endure. Let 2025 be the year you honor your true self and step into your full potential.

Wishing you a year of growth, healing, and light.

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How Emotional Healing Can Lead to Physical Wellness

by Energy MedicineFeaturedForgivenessGratitudeSelf Love

For many, the connection between emotional and physical health remains an elusive concept, often treated as separate realms within the human experience.

However, ancient wisdom and modern science are coming to the same conclusion: our emotions and our physical bodies are intricately linked.

When we carry unresolved emotions, they manifest in physical ways—sometimes subtly, sometimes as chronic illness or persistent discomfort.

This blog delves into how healing unresolved emotional pain can lead to profound physical wellness, allowing you to live in greater harmony with yourself.

We’ll explore the deep interplay between emotional wounds and physical ailments, and how embarking on a path of emotional healing, like the journey through can transform not just your mind, but your body as well.

The Emotional-Physical Connection

Think of the last time you experienced deep stress or anxiety.

Perhaps you noticed your stomach tighten, your head ache, or your heart race. This is no accident.

Our bodies respond to emotional stress in ways that are both visible and hidden.

For centuries, healers from various traditions have recognized that emotions not only influence our thoughts and behaviors but also take up residence in our physical bodies.

Modern medicine is catching up. Studies have shown that emotions like anger, grief, and anxiety can contribute to conditions like high blood pressure, digestive issues, and even chronic pain.

When these emotions go unaddressed, they become stored in the body, creating blockages in our energetic and physical systems.

Dr. Gabor Maté, a well-known advocate of the mind-body connection, asserts that suppressed emotions, particularly unresolved grief and anger, can lead to serious illnesses such as autoimmune diseases and cancer.

He argues that many of us are unaware of just how deeply buried emotional traumas shape our physical health. Unresolved emotions don’t just fade away—they accumulate, causing physical wear and tear over time.

The Impact of Unresolved Emotions

Let’s look more closely at how specific emotions manifest physically.

Chronic stress, for example, releases cortisol, a hormone that when elevated over time, can contribute to inflammation in the body.

Inflammation is known to be a root cause of various diseases, including heart disease, diabetes, and even Alzheimer’s.

Grief and sadness, often stored in the lungs, can manifest as respiratory issues like asthma or chronic coughs.

Anger, commonly housed in the liver, can lead to digestive issues, high blood pressure, or even migraines. Anxiety, frequently held in the stomach, is often linked to gut issues such as irritable bowel syndrome (IBS).

These aren’t just metaphorical connections—they are real, tangible expressions of how the body internalizes and reflects our emotional state.

The process of healing the physical body often requires healing these emotional wounds first.

Only when we address the root causes of our emotional pain can we begin to see real change in our physical health.

How Emotional Healing Works

Emotional healing is not simply about “thinking positive” or avoiding negative emotions.

Instead, it’s about facing the pain, anger, or fear that we carry, acknowledging it, and allowing it to be released.

This process often involves diving into the depths of past trauma, unresolved grief, or even unspoken fears that we may not consciously recognize.

The path to emotional healing begins with self-awareness—recognizing how our past experiences have shaped our emotional responses and acknowledging the emotions we have long buried.

Meditation, energy healing, and journaling are all effective methods for identifying and processing these emotions.

The next step is emotional release. This can come through energy healing practices, such as those taught in the LifeForce Energy Healing® programs, where participants learn to clear energy blockages tied to unresolved emotions. These practices help release pent-up emotional energy, allowing it to flow out of the body rather than stay trapped within. It is in this release that physical healing often begins.

Breathwork and somatic therapies are also powerful tools for releasing emotional energy stored in the body. The simple act of deep breathing can move stagnant energy, while somatic practices teach us to reconnect with the body, allowing us to feel where emotions are being held.

The Ripple Effect of Healing Emotions

When we begin to heal our emotional wounds, a fascinating ripple effect occurs.

As emotional blockages are released, we often find that physical symptoms lessen or disappear altogether. Migraines that were once debilitating may become infrequent.

Chronic pain may fade. Even conditions like high blood pressure or digestive problems may improve as emotional stress is alleviated.

This is not to say that emotional healing is a cure-all for every physical ailment, but it can significantly enhance overall health and well-being. In many cases, it addresses root causes that traditional medical approaches miss.

Beyond the physical improvements, emotional healing brings about a profound sense of peace and lightness.

We become more aligned with our true selves, and as we let go of emotional burdens, we free ourselves to live more fully and authentically.

This emotional liberation often leads to greater self-love, improved relationships, and a renewed sense of purpose.

The Path to Emotional and Physical Wellness: LifeForce Energy Healing® IV

The LifeForce Energy Healing® IV Master-in-Training Certification Course is a year-long journey that helps participants heal emotional wounds and clear energetic blockages, leading to both emotional and physical transformation.

The program offers a comprehensive approach to emotional healing, combining ancient energy healing techniques with modern teachings.

As you progress through the course, you’ll learn to identify where emotional blockages are stored in your body, clear those blockages, and heal from past traumas.

You’ll also gain the skills to help others on their own healing journeys, becoming a beacon of light for those in need of emotional and physical wellness.

This program is not just about learning techniques—it’s about experiencing real, lasting change.

Whether you’re dealing with long-standing emotional wounds or seeking to prevent future physical ailments, the LifeForce Energy Healing® IV program offers the tools you need for profound healing.

Conclusion: Start Your Healing Journey Today

The connection between emotional and physical wellness is undeniable. As you begin to heal emotionally, your body responds in kind, leading to improved health and well-being. If you’re ready to take the next step on your journey to emotional and physical wellness, the LifeForce Energy Healing® IV program is here to guide you. Ready to heal at the deepest levels? Click here to learn more about the Level IV program and begin your journey today >>
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Top 5 Steps to Becoming the Real You

by Energy MedicineFeaturedHealthSelf Love

Do you remember the first time you consciously told a lie, even though you knew it was wrong? Most likely it was to a parent, teacher, or other authority figure, and it was probably triggered by fear. How did you feel after the lie was told? Guilty, shameful, scared? Did it fester inside you until you admitted the truth, or did you stay with the lie?

Lying is a Defense Mechanism

As a child, you probably lied to protect yourself; you lied to a parent to get out of trouble or to a teacher to avoid public ridicule. As an adult, you may have lied to your partner, usually about either sex or money. But lying to others is only half the equation; that defense mechanism also includes lying to yourself. You may tell yourself that you’re fine, even when you feel crushed. No, that rejection didn’t hurt. I didn’t really care about that promotion or that relationship anyway.

You may tell yourself that your feelings are “unacceptable,” or that you “owe” it to a loved one to behave a certain way or follow a certain path. You may even convince yourself that someone else’s dream is really your own. But all of these lies create little pockets of darkness inside; they’re like cancer cells that fester and multiply until the truth comes out. That’s what happened to me: the sexual abuse that I couldn’t acknowledge even to myself became a diagnosis of cancer in my twenties.

Live Your Authentic Self

When you suppress your true feelings or follow a path that isn’t really yours, you aren’t living your authentic self. Your soul made a plan for this life before you incarnated, and that plan is your true life purpose. Acting in line with your life purpose is one way to live in the light, another step on the path toward expanded consciousness.

As an energy healer and spiritual teacher, I often see students doing their best to live in the light, but they keep hitting roadblocks. These students may practice meditation, they connect with nature, they participate in energy healing, but they may still not get the results they desire. When I look at their energy field, I can see that they are living a lie.

Perhaps they are gay but keeping it a secret; perhaps they want a divorce but are too afraid to upset the family; or their career was the dream of a parent and not what they wanted for themselves. As soon as they can admit the truth to themselves, the real healing can begin.

Unmask the True You

One of the greatest gifts of energy healing is its ability to reveal the true you. Just like those students, you, too, can admit the truth and take a big step toward living authentically.
Here are five ways to live your most authentic life:

  1. Find your authentic self.
    In order to live as your true self, you first have to find out who that is. There is an entire spiritual practice based on a seemingly simple question: Who am I? Are you really any of your labels—daughter, partner, mother, sibling, teacher? Are you your job? Who are you if you are not any of your societal roles? As the practice takes you deeper and deeper into meditating upon who you are not, eventually you come to realize that who you are is a soul, a spiritual being connected to Source. Indeed, you are Spirit. This is the deepest level of understanding your authentic self.

Even knowing you are Spirit, you still need to live in the world as authentically as possible. Ask yourself: what makes you feel joy? What are your passions? Your strengths? Your weaknesses? What qualities would you like to cultivate in yourself? What do you want? What makes you feel free? What would you fight for? What values are important to you? This last one is particularly important, as your actions should be in line with the principles you want to live by. When you know what you want and what you care about in this world, then it’s much easier to be authentic.

  1. Express your truth.
    The first step is admitting your truth to yourself, and the next step is expressing it. Even if you can’t yet speak your true feelings or beliefs aloud, write them in your journal. Eventually, you may be able to say what you think and feel to the important people in your life. A heavy weight lifts when you admit your truth. Imagine how great it feels to have your loved ones love the real you! A friend of mine recently admitted, first to himself and then to his family and friends, that living as a male was a lie, and his most authentic self was really female. It took a lot of soul searching and bravery, but decades of unhappiness lifted as he started his transition, and now “he” is happy and proud to be a “she.”
  1. Confront your fear.
    Often, the truth that you keep hidden is directly related to fear. Maybe you worry your loved ones will reject you or cut you from their life if they know the truth. You might fear isolation, loneliness, anger, or even attack, but if you keep repressing your feelings, they can become lodged in your chakras and create mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual problems much worse than the possible repercussions of expressing the truth. Many students come to my healing courses and workshops looking for relief from pain, but what they also find is relief from the constant struggle of dealing with fear.
  1. Discover what you truly believe. Energy medicine will help you dig down and discover what you really believe, rather than what you were taught to believe. As a child, you soaked up every tidbit from your parents, teachers, and the culture at large. You learned things like “boys don’t cry” or “girls must be seen but not heard,” or more personal messages, like “you must follow in the family business.” A large part of becoming your true self is figuring out what it is you truly believe, and what beliefs are not true for you and should be discarded.
  1. Trust your gut. The messages you get from your gut come from your higher self, which knows your soul purpose in this life. When you need to make a decision, listen to your gut. Your body doesn’t lie, and following its direction will steer you toward the course you are meant to travel.

Bonus: Find Your Supportive Community

Embarking on the journey toward your most authentic self can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. A supportive community is essential for your transformation. Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who understand and support your journey will amplify your healing and help you stay aligned with your true path.

By joining the LifeForce Energy Healing Level IV program, you not only receive expert guidance from Deborah King herself but also become part of a community of healers and seekers who are walking the same path. This year-long program is designed to help you shed the false layers, heal from past traumas, and step fully into your life’s purpose.

If you’re ready to embrace the truth of who you are and be supported by a community committed to growth and transformation, click here to learn more about joining Level IV.

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More Ways than 1 to Cultivate Your Inner Light: A Guide to Spiritual Splendor

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

Can you think of someone who radiates positivity? This doesn’t mean they are always happy, as life has its challenges. But do you know someone who responds to life’s curveballs with grace and love? Figures like Gandhi, Maya Angelou, and Mother Teresa faced adversity with forgiveness and compassion, becoming beacons of light that inspire the world.

The Light Inside of You

You have a light inside you, too. Whether it’s a flickering flame or a roaring bonfire, it’s there, waiting to be nourished and allowed to shine brightly. Those who seem happier and lighter have reached higher levels of awareness. In this expanded state, you realize our interconnectedness, allowing you to interact with the world thoughtfully and lovingly. This state of being is much more joyful than reacting from fear and defensiveness.

Spreading Love to All

In my travels meeting shamans, priests, monks, and other spiritual teachers, I’ve learned that experiencing the divine light, even momentarily, allows you to cultivate that light within. When you express this divine light through your thoughts and actions, it creates a ripple effect of love in the world.

Don’t Squelch Your Light!

Healing and enlightenment are intertwined. It’s challenging to reach expanded awareness if your energy field is blocked or your chakras are misaligned. Think of your chakras and energy field as a clear pool. When they aren’t functioning optimally, darkness spreads like ink in water, dimming your inner light. This is where energy healing comes in. By clearing blockages, you make space for the light to return.

Here are five tips to heal yourself and grow your inner light, leading to a more positive and fulfilling life:

  1. Have Fun

    Joy is a powerful catalyst for bringing light into your life. Our fast-paced culture often overlooks the importance of fun. Schedule time to enjoy yourself. Read a good book, watch a movie, take a bubble bath, play games, or run with your dog. Whatever makes you smile and laugh, do it as often as possible. Joy is healing.

  1. Live Your Soul’s True Purpose

    When you live your true purpose, you move further into the light. Finding your purpose feels like a key fitting into a lock, making each day a gift. If you haven’t found your purpose yet, you can discover it through meditation, working with a spiritual teacher, or personal reflection. People aligned with their true purpose often seem to glow from within.

  1. Be of Service

    Serving others helps heal yourself. Giving and using your gifts for the greater good extends your energy and light beyond yourself, helping others and, in turn, illuminating you. Since we are all connected, the light you shine on others reflects back to you. Light brings more light.

  1. Practice Gratitude

    Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s lacking to the abundance in your life. Keep a gratitude journal, noting things you’re thankful for each day. Express gratitude to those around you. This practice elevates your vibration and attracts more positive experiences.

  1. Cultivate Mindfulness

    Being present in the moment helps you appreciate the beauty and joy around you. Practice mindfulness through activities like meditation, deep breathing, or mindful walking. Staying grounded in the present enhances your inner light.

By nurturing the light within you, it will grow so brightly that others will see it and be inspired. Living in light and positivity raises your vibration and helps elevate the vibration of the entire planet. Start today and let your inner light shine!

BONUS: Surround yourself with a community of like minded

You may have heard the phrase that you are the average of the 5 people that you spend the most time with. While 5 may not be the exact number, the concept holds true. You really do turn into the people that you spend the most time with. So you should pay attention and be conscious of who those people are, what they spend time thinking about and doing, what kind of energy they have…

And the best way to cultivate your inner light is to surround yourself with others that are focusing on doing the same.

Right now, the doors are open to our annual Master-in-Training program. A year-long program where you can heal from past traumas, unlock your innate gifts, and work towards becoming the person you were put on this earth to be. This program also offers you a chance to join a close-knit community of like-minded healers and seekers. People that are also cultivating their inner light.

We just held our Open House, earlier this week, where participants shared their own personal experiences from the program. And if you’re interested, you can watch it on demand right here >>

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Rekindling Your Fire: 5 Ingenious Tips to Bounce Back from Burnout

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

Does your morning begin with a sigh? Do you rise with reluctance, a sense of uneasiness permeating your waking moments? Is it fear? Or dread?

If every day feels like a battle for survival, it’s time to step back and assess. This state of affairs isn’t your normal. It’s a sign of burnout.

Burnout is a slow, creeping darkness that gradually shrouds your spirit. It’s like a dying fire losing its warmth and light. When the fuel is gone, the fire dies. Those in the helping professions are particularly prone to this. Your calling to aid others can make you susceptible.

How well are you tending to your own needs? Is your inner light diminishing?

Your wellbeing lies in your hands. It’s your duty to nurture your mind, body, and spirit. When feelings of despair replace joy, love, compassion, and laughter, it’s time for a reset. Listen to your soul’s cry for healing and sanctuary. When burnout looms, your inner alarm will ring.

Here are 5 burnout signs to watch for, and some remedies:

  1. Are you feeling angry and bitter?
    Lashing out at life and the people around you? Negative emotions can block your resilience. It’s time to uncover their source and heal. Journaling can help you process these feelings and restore balance.
  1. Feeling hopeless? Like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel? Consider this: is there someone facing more significant hurdles than you? How are they coping? Reach out to a 12-step program. Sharing with fellow travelers can kickstart your recovery.
  1. Are you constantly exhausted? Feeling numb and empty? Perhaps you’re not resting enough. Imagine a place where you can truly relax. Change your schedule to get more sleep. You’re worth it.
  1. Feeling out of sync? Has your life rhythm been disrupted? Meditation can restore your equilibrium.
  1. Do you feel trapped in a box? Has it been ages since you’ve felt the sun on your face? Fresh air and nature can work wonders. Step outside.

Remember, susceptibility to burnout isn’t a flaw. It shows that you’re living with awareness and an open heart. Burnout is common among those who love, give and serve.

The key is recognizing when your fire is dwindling and taking steps to refuel. Keep your light burning. Practice self-love and compassion. Seek balance and rest. Surround yourself with like-minded friends on a similar journey to wellbeing.

Feeling the burn? Consider joining my retreat in Scottsdale, Arizona, Sunday May 19, 2024 through Wednesday May 22, 2024. Watch as your energy is rekindled, your heart refilled, and your life realigned with your true purpose. The help you need is just a click away. Learn more here >>

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5 Steps to Following Your Bliss and Building a Better World

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

We’ve all heard Joseph Campbell’s wise words: “Follow your bliss!” But do you know what comes next? “Don’t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn’t know they were going to be.”

This advice resonates deeply in my work as an energy healer and spiritual teacher.

When you tap into your bliss, you unlock the gifts you came into this world to give. And as you embrace these gifts, doors will open, guiding you toward a life of joy and purpose.

“Bliss” isn’t just a word—it’s a spiritual principle. It acknowledges your nature as an energy-based being, and embracing life’s challenges with joy is a key goal of your spiritual journey.

By pursuing happiness in every aspect of your life, you’ll enhance your well-being and connect with your life’s purpose. This bliss can act as a compass, guiding you on your path. But first, you must identify what makes you truly happy. Your spiritual practices—prayer, meditation, and journaling—can help reveal this inner joy.

Recognizing and embracing your happiness not only elevates your spirit but also clarifies the gifts you’re here to develop and share with the world.

Your bliss, in whatever form it takes, is likely intertwined with the well-being of others. When you engage fully—mind, body, and soul—you fulfill your life’s purpose, contributing to a better world.

Here’s how you can cultivate this path:

  1. Identify Your Gifts:

    Your unique talents align with what brings you joy. These gifts are often skills you’re naturally good at, whether singing, playing an instrument, writing, or helping others. Recognizing these talents and embracing them wholeheartedly can guide you to a life of joy and contribution.
  1. Stay Connected to Source:

    Strengthening your connection to a higher power helps you recognize and utilize your gifts. Through practices like prayer, meditation, yoga, or walks in nature, you draw closer to your bliss. These practices open you to divine connections, allowing you to recognize opportunities when they arise.
  1. Focus on Service:

    Use your gifts to serve others, aligning with your spiritual path. Acts of service, no matter how small, help fulfill your purpose and reverberate through the web of life. Your joy adds to the spiritual energy of all things, creating a ripple effect that brings happiness to others.
  1. Embrace Inner Balance:

    Recognizing your gifts and serving others can lead to balance in all areas of life. This equilibrium fosters a holistic sense of joy, improving not just your personal well-being but also the well-being of those around you.
  1. Share Your Symphony:

    Your gifts are the music you’ve come into this world to play. Don’t keep your symphony under wraps; share it with the world. By doing so, you not only fulfill your purpose but also contribute to a more harmonious world for all.

In following these steps, you not only unlock your own bliss but also create a life of joy, balance, and service to others. Your unique contributions, driven by happiness, spread positive energy, uplifting yourself and the world around you.

Want a helping hand from a group of like-minded healers and truth-seekers on your journey to finding your bliss? Join us this spring as we gather in Scottsdale to share, learn, heal, and connect together.

You can find the details by clicking here >>

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5 Tips to Rev Up Your Sex Life This Spring

by Energy MedicineFeaturedRelationshipsSelf Love

“In the spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.”~ Alfred Tennyson

As spring blooms, it naturally invites a renewal of energy, including in our intimate relationships. The season, vibrant with life, often stirs a desire to deepen connections and revitalize our love lives. Inspired by nature’s reawakening, here are five practical tips to enhance your intimate experiences, blending holistic wellness with heartfelt connection.

  1. Focus on Emotional Intimacy

    Start with building a strong emotional foundation. Open and honest communication with your partner creates trust and deepens emotional connections, which are crucial for a fulfilling sex life. Discuss your desires, fears, and boundaries openly. This transparency fosters intimacy, making physical connections more profound and satisfying.
  1. Energize Your Second Chakra

    The second chakra, centered around the pelvic area, governs our sexual energy and creative potential. Engage in activities that stimulate this chakra such as yoga, dancing, or energy healing focused on this energy center. A balanced second chakra enhances physical pleasure and emotional receptivity, enriching your intimate encounters.
  1. Cultivate Heart Chakra Openness

    A vibrant fourth chakra enhances the ability to give and receive love freely. Practices like caring for pets and wildlife, volunteering, or simply engaging in acts of kindness can open your heart. An open heart chakra invites deeper connections, paving the way for a more affectionate and spiritually connected sex life.
  1. Prioritize Self-Care

    Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for your relationship with others. Invest time in self-care practices that make you feel good about yourself, whether it’s a fitness routine, skincare regimen, or hobbies that spark joy. Feeling good about yourself boosts confidence, which is inherently attractive and invigorating to your sex life.
  1. Explore New Experiences Together Breaking out of routine can reignite passion. Plan a getaway, try a new hobby, or explore new experiences together in the bedroom. New activities stimulate the brain’s reward centers, increasing dopamine levels, which heighten attraction and excitement between partners.

By embracing these practices, you not only revitalize your sex life but also enrich your overall emotional and spiritual connection with your partner. Spring is the perfect time to explore these dimensions, inviting a season of growth and deeper fulfillment.

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From Captivity to Liberation: St. Patrick’s Influence and My Own Transformation

by Energy MedicineFeaturedHealthSelf Love

In the vibrant tapestry of global celebrations, St. Patrick’s Day stands out with its distinctive emerald hue, echoing the rich history and folklore of Ireland. It’s a day when the world, regardless of ancestry, embraces the Irish spirit.

This time, as I adorn myself in green, paying homage to both the saint and my Irish lineage, I’m compelled to delve deeper into the roots of this day, intertwined with my personal journey of transformation and healing.

“May God, Mary, and Patrick bless you.”

This traditional Irish blessing captures the essence of St. Patrick’s Day, a tribute to the saint who wasn’t born Irish but became an emblem of the nation’s identity.

My connection to this celebration is twofold: honoring St. Patrick, guided by his inner visions, and acknowledging my own battles, including overcoming alcohol addiction—a shadow that contrasts sharply with the day’s festivities.

St. Patrick’s tale begins in the late fourth century in Britain, where he was born into affluence. His life took a dramatic turn at sixteen when he was captured by Irish raiders.

This period of captivity in a land then unfamiliar to him sparked a profound spiritual awakening. His writings recount visions that led to his escape and eventual return to Ireland as a missionary, a story of resilience and faith that resonates with my own path towards healing.

Contrary to popular belief, St. Patrick’s mission in Ireland wasn’t about expelling snakes—a metaphor for indigenous practices of the time—but about spreading Christianity.

His legacy is a testament to the power of transformation, a theme that deeply influences my work in energy medicine and personal growth.

St. Patrick’s Day, marked on March 17th, commemorates his passing but is celebrated with much more than a nod to Irish history. It’s a day when prohibitions are lifted during Lent, allowing for feasting, dancing, and, historically, a lot of drinking.

This last aspect hits close to home, as alcohol once played a significant role in my life, a facet of my Irish heritage that I’ve since learned to view through a lens of awareness and self-care.

Reflecting on my own journey, I recognize the fine line between celebration and excess. My battle with cancer in my twenties was a wake-up call, highlighting the destructive path I was on due to alcohol.

Addiction is a struggle many face, and in the spirit of St. Patrick’s Day—a day of transformation—I share signs of alcoholism, hoping to offer guidance to those who might see themselves in my story.

  • Worry from loved ones about your drinking habits.
  • Drinking alone is a common practice.
  • Drinking despite promises to stop.
  • Being late to work because of drinking.
  • Feelings of guilt related to drinking.
  • Experiencing headaches or hangovers after drinking.
  • Morning drinking to ease hangover symptoms.
  • Irritation at comments about your drinking.
  • Thoughts of needing to reduce alcohol consumption.
  • Experiencing blackouts.

For those recognizing these patterns, I urge you to seek support, as I did with Alcoholics Anonymous—a decision that transformed my life, allowing me to embrace each day, including St. Patrick’s Day, with clarity and joy.

As we celebrate St. Patrick’s Day, let’s remember the deeper meanings behind the revelry—the stories of change, the strength found in faith, and the personal battles fought and won. It’s a day that reflects not only the spirit of Ireland but also the universal capacity for renewal and healing.

In this light, St. Patrick’s Day is more than just a cultural celebration; it’s a reminder of our ability to overcome adversity, much like St. Patrick himself, and to find strength in our convictions and the journey towards healing and transformation.

Perhaps this St. Patrick’s day will be the day you decide to take the first step on your own personal healing journey.

One step we might recommend is an introduction to energy healing via our bestselling LifeForce Energy Healing Level I course, which you can access by clicking here. Through this course, you can learn a number of techniques to begin to overcome the traumas that may be holding you back and start stepping into your true self.

But whether or not this is the right step for you at this time, we wish you a St. Patrick’s day full of love, positivity, and movement towards your destiny.

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Self-Love is the New Love

by FeaturedSelf Love

As the romance industry gears up for the annual celebration of love on Valentine’s Day, a familiar wave of emotion may wash over you. Are you yearning for someone to send you flowers and chocolates, to express an undying love for the wonderful person you are, and not getting anything like that?

Maybe you are dreading seeing your colleagues receive flowers at the office from their one and only or are even secretly thinking about sending flowers to yourself to keep up appearances while that Miley Cyrus song plays on repeat in your mind.

Are you definitely staying as far away as you can from social media for the next couple of days, and watching someone’s romantic highlight reel makes you think that you could never experience that. Because deep down inside you think of yourself as unloveable and unworthy.

Society has a way of imposing standards that tie our individual worth to external factors like youth, beauty, wealth, power, romantic relationships, and status. If your self-worth is entangled in these external markers, a persistent feeling of inadequacy, the perpetual “I’m not good enough,” may run rampant in your mind.

This mindset can lead to constant comparisons and feelings of jealousy because you think the grass is greener on the other side.

Did you grow up in an environment where your siblings upstaged you, or your parents belittled your actions and dreams? Were you teased or bullied at school, creating a belief that you were somehow unlovable and alone? These early experiences can disturb your adult life, negatively affecting your personal and professional relationships.

Maybe now is the time to get emotionally honest with yourself and stop trying to numb your feelings through binge-eating, excessive drinking, or going on yet another expensive shopping spree.

Avoiding discomfort, sadness, and pain only perpetuates the cycle of self-deprecation. It’s time to understand what loving yourself really means.

Self-love isn’t a narcissistic focus solely on yourself without considering the feelings of others, or being on an eternal high where negative emotions are gone. Instead, it involves doing away with the incessant self-criticism and ending the harsh self-judgment about your appearance, identity, and life choices.

Loving yourself may entail making bold decisions—ending an abusive relationship, confronting those who have hurt you, seeking a job that validates your talents, or starting a recovery program for substance abuse. It involves acknowledging and feeling your pain, recognizing that healing often begins by addressing the wounds from your childhood.

Believing negative self-perceptions may seem easier than appreciating your worth because that is how you’ve been wired all your life.

Here is the good news: Changing your beliefs and consequently your self-perception creates a positive impact in your life.

Trusting your intuition and gut instincts is critical in this transformation. If you’re going to love yourself, it really helps to believe in yourself—to that intuitive inner voice that you may have been overriding all these years. Your Higher Self is a conduit of pure unconditional love, accessible to you at all times through meditation, prayer, nature, or any other method that works for you.

Tap into it and you will know that you are loved beyond measure by the Divine, the Source that created you; this pure unconditional love is available to you at all times. This way you’ll be able to forgive yourself for any perceived shortcomings – after all, do you know anybody who is perfect? And you’ll be able to love yourself and others.

We attract into our life what we are in vibrational harmony with. So imagine feeling good about yourself, loving yourself, doing kind things for yourself, and projecting that energy out into the world.

It won’t matter how you spend Valentine’s Day. It won’t matter if you bought yourself flowers because they are for a very special person – you.

If you enjoyed this article you might also enjoy my Loving Yourself Audio Workshop where I guide you on the important first step to healing the relationship you have with your Self.

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NORTH, EAST, WEST, OR SOUTH:

by Energy MedicineFeaturedSelf Love

DOES THE DIRECTION IN WHICH YOUR HEAD POINTS WHEN
YOU’RE ASLEEP DETERMINE THE QUALITY OF YOUR SLEEP?

According to vastu shastra, the traditional Hindu science of architecture,
the answer is YES!

You have probably heard of feng shui, the ancient Chinese art of arranging buildings, objects, and space to achieve harmony and balance within a specific environment. Feng shui means “the way of wind and water.”). But you may not be familiar with vastu shastra, feng shui’s architectural counterpart.

If you’ve experienced sleepless nights for days, weeks, or months on end, you don’t have to be reminded how crucial sound, restful sleep is when it comes to your daily functioning, mindset, and energy levels. Restful sleep helps heal your body, refresh your spirit, and give you the get-up-and-go you need to tackle your duties and your delights.

Ayurveda is the form of alternative medicine (and the traditional system of medicine of India) that seeks to treat and integrate body, mind, and spirit using a wide-ranging holistic approach that emphasizes eating with the seasons, exercise, herbal remedies, and meditation to establish and preserve robust health. It emphasizes three pillars of health: diet, sleep, and energy management. All three are crucial, irreducible aspects of wellness. Unless all three are addressed simultaneously at all times, disharmony ensues inside our bodies, paving a path toward malaise and ultimately disease.

If you find yourself unable to achieve a full rejuvenating night’s sleep despite doing all the usual things to decompress and deescalate prior to retiring for the night (turning off your electronics before 8 p.m., journaling, etc.), I suggest you try the sleep positions discussed below to see if any of them can help.

Vastu shastra’s goal is to balance the five natural planetary elements (earth, water, fire, air, and ether) by preserving and placing each element within its proper position and proportion. Whenever this is achieved, your dwelling spaces become harmonious, peaceful, and wellness-centered. And like creates like: your enhanced energy helps your surroundings and other beings in your orbit receive and radiate healing energy.

According to vastu shastra, the direction in which the top of your head points when you’re asleep truly matters!

NORTH

“Only dead people sleep with their heads pointing north.” — Vasant Lad

The Vedas teach that North is the route your soul will take when it exits your body at the end of your corporeal lifetime. So, only those interested in occasional lucid dreaming or astral travel should sleep with their head pointing in that direction.

In all other cases, it’s not a good idea because of the planet’s magnetic field. Because we, too, respond physically to magnetic poles — with our internal positive charge facing north and our negative charge facing south — those who try to sleep against this natural polarity are similar to two positive magnets being forced into face-to-face contact. Good luck with that! Those who sleep with their heads facing north regularly can expect to wake up feeling exhausted night after night, with no end in sight.

And because it is magnetic polarities that affect the circulation of your blood, sleeping with the top of your head facing north can cause stress, illness, and thought disturbances, none of which help you attain a restful night’s sleep. The result: potentially unhelpful emotional instability, frustration, lack or diminution of willpower, misery, and physical problems.

In a single sound bite, sleeping with the top of your head facing north withdraws energy from your body.

EAST

Academic students, listen up! Sleeping with the top of your head facing east is an excellent strategy. Doing so will boost your ability to retain what you’re learning, increase your ability to concentrate, and promote meditation-like sleep.

East is also the perfect direction for educators, scholars, and job and promotion-seekers. Sleeping in this position can help you feel more powerful, masterful, and energetic.

East is also ideal for anyone who is striving to overcome health challenges.

WEST

Sleeping with the top of your head facing west can be problematic for anyone who is experiencing sleep deficits. Although west is okay (not ideal, but okay), if you’re success-driven and striving for some form of world renown or domination in your field, the head-facing-west position won’t necessarily serve you as a reliable sleep-inducer. Although some sleep experts suggest that west is a neutral sleeping position, others claim it’s hard to get excellent rejuvenating rest because of the occurrence of frequent, unsettling action/adventure type dreams. (Type A’s are especially prone to sleeping fitfully, so East and South are ideal for them.)

Bottom line: Sleeping with the top of your head facing west or north opposes your goal to maximize the amount of rest and recuperation you want to achieve.

SOUTH

Ding ding ding ding ding! When it comes to achieving restful, rejuvenating sleep, south is the hands down, gold-plated winner.

If you want to sleep like the proverbial dead and wake up ready to embrace and enhance your life, turn your bed so its head faces south.

Recall the above magnetic pole information. Sleeping with your head facing south and your feet facing north draws energy into your body. Not only will your sleep be happy and contented, your health, happiness, and prosperity are likely to increase. Sleeping with head south means you’ll absorb the energy required to tackle what needs doing to advance you to the next level in your journey toward your life goals.

If you enjoyed reading this article, you might also like learning about lucid dreaming, an excellent precursor to astral projection and traveling the astral realms. Take a look at my Astral Wisdom course where I teach you how to design the Life of Your Dreams By Mastering the Out-of-Body Experience.

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Perpetual Thanksgiving

by FeaturedGratitudeSelf Love

“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” –Marcel Proust

It has been a tough few years. You have most likely been affected, to a greater or lesser degree, by powerful forces, including a pandemic, wars, and economic uncertainty sweeping the globe. However difficult this time has been for you, is exactly why it’s so important to reflect on all you still have to be grateful for.

And while we gather for Thanksgiving feasts, it’s important to go beyond the dinner, and go back to the true meaning of Thanksgiving . . . and give thanks.

Gratitude is more than a quick thumbs up for the pumpkin pie; true gratitude is a path to the divine. Henry Ward Beecher, the 19th century clergyman and social reformer who always focused on Christ’s love, said: “The unthankful heart discovers no mercies; but the thankful heart will find, in every hour, some heavenly blessings.”

The ancient root of the word gratitude, gwere, means “to be in contact with the Divine.” Gratitude is a way to unleash a flow of positive energy in and out of your heart, and to open to the love of the universe that is available to fill you. Gratitude can transform your mood, shift you into your Higher Self, and connect you to Spirit.

So what do you have to be grateful for amidst the fears and worries of all that is going on in the world?

Start with your health. It may not be perfect, but you’re alive and breathing. Thank you, thank you for the chance to still be here, to appreciate the stark beauty of a winter sunset, the smile of a happy child, the ability to give praise.

Maybe you’re grateful for having a week or a month or, thank God, a year of sobriety under your belt. Being thankful for one day at a time is a good practice for everyone.

You may have loving pets that provide you true companionship. Their unconditional love (in the case of dogs) and noble tolerance (cats) of your perceived flaws are certainly worthy of thanks (and treats). Being grateful for their safe and non-judgmental love opens your heart effortlessly.

Gratitude is how you make your heart sing. When you are occupied with remembering those who have helped you along the way during this past year, your heart is happy. It’s interesting to note that you can’t be feeling grateful and unhappy at the same time. And as Piglet long ago noticed (thanks to A.A. Milne), “…even though he had a Very Small Heart, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude.”

I recently reconnected with an old friend and spent an hour doing something utterly frivolous: singing! Seriously, just the two us, singing to each other over Zoom, doing hilarious, impromptu duets, and laughing at our mistakes and off-key moments. It is easier than ever to connect with close friends, even if they are a great distance away. So, let’s all be grateful for Zoom!

Like everything else, there is a spectrum of gratitude, ranging from being thankful the sun is shining to down-on-your-knees, head-bowed gratefulness when your life or that of a loved one is spared. It includes your attempts to be grateful for those who have made your life more difficult; that challenge can humble your ego and give you the opportunity to raise your own vibration.

When you are filled with gratitude, you are connected to everyone and everything in the web of love that sustains the universe. Giving thanks for all that you yourself are, for the people, plants, and animals in your environment, and around the world, brings you into the present moment and into the presence of spirit. In the words of Shakespeare, “O Lord that lends me life, lend me a heart replete with thankfulness.”

Above all, dear student, my heart is full of gratitude for you, for generously sharing your spiritual journey with me. We are one in Spirit, and I am grateful for your companionship and support as, together, we walk toward home.

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The Perfect Time to Reflect on Your Dark Side

by Domestic AbuseEnergy MedicineFeaturedRelationshipsSelf Love

As we enter the “dark” part of the year, with short days and long chilly nights, it’s time to look at the dark forces that we would prefer to ignore. It’s not just the ghosts and goblins of Halloween or the presence of dead relatives on the Day of the Dead that can give us the shivers.

Whether we recognize it or not, everyone has some darkness within. We store our negative feelings—jealousy, anger, bitterness, shame, hatred, insecurity (to name a few)—in our shadow side. When we don’t do the inner work of acknowledging and releasing these disturbing emotions, the shadow side can take charge and cause real problems for someone else.

Take Beth, for example. She was so excited when she got her new job, with a hefty pay increase. Soon, however, she could barely get out of bed, much less drag herself to work. I could see the problem clearly: Beth’s father, although he was outwardly proud of his daughter, was inwardly jealous of her success. He’d been laid off and was having trouble finding a job because he was “too old.” There was a psychic attachment between father and daughter—a negative “cord” that connected them. I taught Beth a powerful shamanic technique that is used to sever negative cords between people while still keeping the positive cords of love and respect. Soon Beth was happy again at work.

The dark side deals with pretty low-level energies. When you are under “attack,” you might find that you feel more tired than usual, have trouble sleeping, come down with one awful cold after another, or just feel blue and miserable. You aren’t functioning in your normal perky and organized way and can’t figure out why. Well, consciously or unconsciously, someone may have formed an intention to harm you.

Does your mother-in-law hate the fact that you stole away her darling son or daughter? That old “evil eye” she gives you is for real. Maybe your ex is still angry at you, even years after you split. Or maybe you have a “frenemy” who can’t stand the fact that you’re in a loving relationship while her marriage has fallen apart.

Most people are unconscious of 90 percent of their thoughts and feelings. Your mother-in-law probably isn’t aware of how she feels about you. Your ex may not realize he’s holding on to such anger. Your frenemy probably thinks you’re her best friend. That’s why I’m forever urging people to meditate and journal—two of the best ways to recognize what you’re really feeling so you can clear those emotions.

You always play a role in whatever happens to you; you aren’t a helpless victim. When you deal with your shadow side and process the negative feelings you have about yourself and about other people, you can transform the negative energy of a psychic attack and stay healthy, happy, and peaceful.

Don’t think psychic attack is too “out there.” It’s real, and happens all the time. However, you can learn to protect yourself from psychic attack and to clear yourself of negative energy.

Don’t be scared of the ghosts and goblins you harbor inside or the dark forces sent your way by others – you can clear them!

It’s all about being able to read your own energy, the energy of others, and gaining the skills and knowledge to heal that which needs healing.

Start your journey by joining our Level I Certification Program (which also grants you access to our private Soul Family community). Click here to take the first step >>

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Blessings for a New Beginning

by FeaturedSelf Love

“And suddenly you just know…It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.”  

—Meister Eckhart

September makes a perfect time for new beginnings. Your spirit recognizes the coming of a fresh new season. The relaxation of summer is fading and the excitement and promise of new challenges begins to take shape ahead. Coming soon is harvest-time, a time of centering and gathering and achievement. Remember the back-to-school feeling of stepping forth in new shoes with a clean slate and high hopes for yourself? You may not be going back to school this fall, but doesn’t your spirit still long for the new adventure that represents?

Here’s how I’m feeling this September and I am thrilled to tell you about it. I feel the rise of a great love and also an overwhelming gratitude. I feel incredibly blessed to be where I am and doing the work that has been given to me. I have my purpose and my path in the work of energy healing. As a Master Healer, I am privileged to teach an ever-increasing community of loving hearts who want to heal themselves and then the world. Their spiritual expansion fills my heart with joy and carries me further along my path as we heal and thrive and grow together. Hope and happiness and peace lie ahead for us all as we join forces to make our world a better place.

What an exciting prospect! The healing power that you have within is infinite. You can begin your healing within, and as your consciousness awakens and expands, it will begin to radiate forth and touch all those around you, your community, your world. Isn’t it a dream worth pursuing—to heal, thrive, and grow beyond all the boundaries and barriers you may have imposed on yourself?

More and more people are awakening to their own healing gifts, finding their amazing power for love, forgiveness, and gratitude. More and more people are stepping into the light and becoming the healers they are destined to be. What is your gift? Have you developed it to its full potential? How are you using your unique life force to heal the world right now? And if not now, when?

What are your plans for a fresh start, a new beginning, a real renaissance for your spirit in the months ahead? Here are some steps you can take to ramp up your own program for healing your world:

Be Empowered by Nature. A simple walk in the park, the fields, the woods, or on the shore will allow you to observe and enjoy the nurturing, healing force that is Nature at work. You are a part of that natural energy that colors the leaves and drives the wind, the sunlight, the rush of sparkling water.

Build a Community. Find a band of fellow students who want to study and explore the power of loving energy to heal our world together. Notice how some people make you glow in their presence? Gather up those kindred spirits and spend some time working on your mutual expansion of mind and heart.

Meditate. This mind-calming, soul-soothing activity is spreading like the light of the sun at the dawn of a new day. I overheard a lady say in a restaurant last night, “It’s pretty much the best thing you can do—for anything you want to accomplish.” A sweet understatement for the most important way to create a solid spiritual foundation for your power to heal yourself and your world.

Journal from Your Heart. Ask for the wisdom and the courage to search deep within and tell it truly. Journaling can help you bring forth your true purpose through manifestation. You can call to you the people, opportunities, and experiences your Higher Self is guiding you to discover

Learn to Give and Accept Unconditional Love. If you hope to heal yourself and your world, you will need to work with the kind of love that created you, the world, and everything in it. We come from the Divine Love that is the Source of All. That love is the wavelength we need to be on for all the good we wish for—for ourselves and others—to appear.

I hope you join me in making this September the season of new beginnings for your body, mind, and spirit. Your gifts are needed for the future of our world. We are one vibration, one field, one energy, with love as our connection. How mindful are you of the healing influence you could have on the world? As poet Mary Oliver asks, “What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

And if you’d like to know if this is actually the ideal time, astrologically, for you personally to have a new beginning, consider booking a private Vedic Astrology session with one of the world’s most renowned experts on the topic. Book a call with Dr. Sisira and see what the stars have in store for you >>