What Happens When You’re Finally Held
For years, I tried to do it alone.
I devoured the books. Sat in silent meditation. Attended the weekend intensives. I said the affirmations, lit the candles, pulled the cards.
And it wasn’t wrong. That solitary path taught me discipline. Listening. The subtle rhythm of my own soul. But there’s a ceiling to how far you can go when you’re the only one holding the container.
Eventually, something breaks down. Or opens up. Or both.
Because there comes a point on the spiritual path when the next layer of healing won’t come through knowledge or solitude. It comes through connection.
It comes when you’re finally held.
Why the Solo Path Can’t Carry You Forever
Spiritual independence is noble…and necessary. But it’s also, at times, a clever disguise for control.
We stay alone because we think we have to be perfect first. Because we’ve been hurt before. Because the idea of being seen in our full truth, in all our mess and medicine, feels too vulnerable.
But healing doesn’t fully land until the nervous system feels safe.
And no matter how devoted you are, your nervous system needs other humans to finish the work. Regulation happens in relationship. It always has.
There’s a reason monasteries, mystery schools, and lineages have always emphasized the group field. Not for conformity. But for containment. The container amplifies your gifts. And it protects your process.
The Energy of Being Witnessed
When you’re held in a sacred container, something shifts.
It’s subtle at first. You speak less from performance and more from presence. You feel less urgency to prove. The pressure to be “on” begins to melt.
You start to be seen not just for what you know, but for who you are becoming.
This kind of witnessing has weight. It accelerates the work. Because when others hold you in your truth, it becomes harder to walk away from it.
In ancient Ireland, there was a word (“anam cara”) meaning soul friend. Not just a companion, but someone who holds your essence in view, even when you forget it yourself.
A group of soul friends held in sacred space? That’s alchemy.
What Community Can Do That Solitude Can’t
Here’s what I’ve seen again and again:
People enter the container wobbly. Second-guessing. Masked in their old coping. Still trying to hold it all alone.
Then, over time…sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly…something unlocks.
They speak from deeper places. They listen differently. Their field begins to harmonize with the others. Their inner channel strengthens. Not because someone told them what to believe, but because the container created the safety for their own knowing to rise.
No single moment causes it. It’s the presence. The rhythm. The quiet accountability of being seen week after week. Especially on the days when you don’t feel shiny or sorted or inspired.
The Sacred Field of the Master-in-Training Program
This is why I created the Master-in-Training program (Level IV).
Not just to teach more techniques. But to create a sacred structure for real transformation to land.
It’s a yearlong journey held in rhythm and reverence. You receive monthly live teachings, advanced practices, private sessions, direct mentorship, and the presence of a circle that begins to feel less like strangers… and more like spiritual kin.
The shifts that happen in this field are not small:
- People stop outsourcing their power.
- Their intuition sharpens.
- Their healing stabilizes.
- They begin to walk as their energy — not just think about it.
- And perhaps most importantly… they feel held. Not just in their light, but in their process.
If You’ve Been Trying to Do It Alone
This is your sign to stop.
Not because you’re incapable. But because you’ve reached the edge of what solo work can hold. And because the version of you that’s coming next is too important to emerge unsupported.
There’s no badge of honor for being the lone wolf. Only delay.
We’re not meant to hold our full becoming alone. We’re meant to let it unfold inside a circle that knows how to hold it.
The door to the LifeForce Energy Healing® Mast-in-Training program is now open.
If you’ve been feeling the pull, come walk through.
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We’d be honored to hold what comes next.
